food grabber

hahaha.
i won't call it food stealer, cause it's too harsh.

but recently i realize there's this one girl at my workplace who was quite intense with grabbing food.
which, involving me secara tak langsung.
it only happened twice.
but twice is enough for me.
i'm not judging her, it just speaks for itself through action. lol

once at a dining table,
she quickly grabbed this small bowl of pudding next to her when i said "eh where's the dessert? oh, there's pudding."
..when the pudding was actually mine! *whattt*
she grabbed it and ate it all that very moment. (because she thought it's the only one left)
turned out that her pudding was just on her left.
and when she realized that, she took her pudding and gave it to me.
"take it out now!! my pudding!" i made a joke while mimicking, air-pat her back. lol

then today after meeting.
a dear friend took a plate of fruits from the 'VIP' table after the VIPs left.
so the fruits were not much.
she (the same person who grabbed my pudding previously) aimed for grapes.
only three grapes on the plate.
once the plate touched the table,
she quickly grabbed all three grapes and ate it.
i was like "whooaa you take it all!"
yes i just spilled it out. haha
may be that dear friend (not the grabber, this is the one who put the plate on the table) heard me, so she gave her grapes to me.
saya bukan nak makan grapes pun.
saya nak tegur perbuatan yang macam kurang sopan tu je.. in a casual way. ahaha
but since she's sincerely gave it to me, so i took it.

i'm not just referring to this one particular person who loves to grab food.
once i was with this group of friends who ate their meals without waiting for others to arrrive, because.. well i dunno. may be because they're hungry or they wanna go home early.
but if it's an event involving lots of people..
there's a thing called etiquette or ethic, where you need to wait for everyone before you can start eating.
(unless if some people arrive super late like more than half an hour or so)
it not, people might misinterpret you as rude on the dining table.

i'm saying this because may be i'm not really used to it.
i live in a surrounding where most of my closed ones offering food to each other and not just grabbing it and munch it all at once, not leaving a bit to everyone else.

i hope people can change.
for the betterment of human beings.

meanwhile, i will say my thoughts in a casual way. ;)